A few months ago, I had the chance to learn the basics of POI dancing. Basically it is a preparation for learning fire dancing. I’ve been mesmerized by fire dancers, they are so and brave and so graceful! When I got the chance to talk to one of the dancers in Boracay, I excitedly asked where to get lessons. I found out that its a good way of exercising and toning your arms. Combining it with some basic dance moves will give you a good cardio workout, too. It is fun & challenging at the same time.

Learning new stuff isn’t just for kids. Sometimes, we’ll be surprise on what other new things we are capable of doing. This also applies learning new tricks in bed. Coming from a catholic oriented country, most of us are scared of learning and trying new things in love making. I was surprised the other day that a woman of early late thirties/ early forties (someone I know) came up to me and asked for some advice. She thought she lost all her libido. She met this guy and started being intimate with him, but she found herself back to zero, totally lost on how to make love! (Ouch! I would call that ” Bed emergency”, she actually admitted that she’s a fan of my FHM BLOG and liked how open minded I am. )

To the rescue, I obligingly gave her tips and even introduced to her to the joys of sex toys, especially when you use them with someone whom you find special and whom you are comfortable with. I told her to use it and surprise her man by planning a playtime with him,  (Gentlemen, you could also surprise your ladies with some toys. I’m sure if there is trust between partners, she would give it a go). For couples, it would surely make the interest level rise up.

Anyway, overall we should not limit ourselves with what we already learned. Explore and have fun. Life it too short not to learn a lot of new stuff!