so collated via extensive research over the years ... I believe these would form a basic framework for a mindblowing BJ for your man ... handjob is optional - and only if you know how to do it ... wahahahaha ...
a BJ ... whether romantic or otherwise ... SHOULD consist of the following elements ...
- coordinated hand and tongue movements ... for example, if the tongue is doing its round-and-round-and-upside-down thing on the head, the hand should be doing the shaft ... try a one-hand up and down anti-clockwise movement ... or a variation ... two hands - both rubbing the shaft in opposite directions
- effort ... not just the lackadaisical, delicate, girlie, cutesy BJ ... but effort, y'know! Show him you're a real d*ck hound ... that you can't get enough of it ... that you don't just like it in your mouth ... you like rubbing it on your face, your cheeks, your nose, your boobs ... anywhere you fancy - your imagination's the limit, really
- rhythm ... if he's not fully erect, you might try coaxing his d*ck ... teasing it ... butterfly-soft tongue revolutions while you take him whole into your mouth. when he starts to become swollen, intensify ... then variate ... I always like to do the tibetan method ... (PM me for more details on this - not for the faint of heart hahahaha)
- time ... a BJ takes time ... not just 5 minutes for the sake of foreplay ... try to do it for at least 20 minutes ... and for pete's sake, if he's a little big, don't try to take all of him suddenly into your mouth ... especially, if your throat muscles haven't been trained not to gag ... magmumukha ka lang trying hard at masusuka ka - boba
- imagination ... read up. research. think about how you can make your BJ better. ask your sexual partners about what they like or don't like. no-one's born with all the sexual skills ... crikey. Last year, I got to thinking about the lost art of the handjob ... that got me asking default fubu for a sesh where I got to practice all my theories on the handjob ... using the right hand ... using my left hand (I'm not a lefty so it's a little awkward) ... rubbing the head so it remains uncovered by your hands for 5 minutes or more ... differing pressures and sensations ...
- the personal touch ... make it unforgettable. do something like ... trying to take all of him into your mouth then snaking your tongue out to lick his balls underneath ... or ... use your teeth (not in an unskilled, oh-my-god-I'm-so-sorry-cause-I-don't-know-what-I'm-doing way) on his shaft the way a cat would do if it was just playing with a mouse it doesn't want to eat ... he can't say it's painful because the way you use your teeth is sooo skillful
