Here are some hints and tips that could greatly help your female partner have an orgasm. These, however, are only based on my experiences and some research:
-It all starts with how the lady feels about you. It’s important that the lady TRUSTS you, or she LOVES you, or the DESIRE to make love or have sex with you. These gives us guys a no restriction- all access to whatever we want to do with our partners, and it eliminates the lady's fear, second thoughts, and distractions so that their attention is directed toward the event.
-Next key element is the foreplay. You have to make an effort, give some time and creativity for this one. Greater, more intense and more intimate foreplay makes the hormones shoot up for the lady's, and these hormones makes the lady's body more sensitive to pleasure and heighten their senses, plus it makes the blood circulation better, specially to their p***y, and more blood means more sensitive the organ is. At this point, communication is important. Start with some sexy compliments that turns her on, or let out some moan to stimulate her more, and learn how to dirty talk (some girls like that). Now here are some tips you can do for the foreplay, the important factor here is to stimulate every sense of her body (Sight, Smell, Touch, Hearing, and Taste). The basic thing is that you should look good, smell good and even taste good, so make an effort to take a bath and have some masculine scent on you. Next comes the art of using your lips. You're lips and tongue are the next pleasure givers besides from you're p***s. Start off with a kiss, it could be a slow one, passionate one, torrid or wild even, just be sure not to give off to much fluids, and be sure to explore on how to use these kinds of kisses in different situations depending on the lady's mood. Next up is kissing other parts of the body. The neck and ear area are often really sensitive to a kiss, lick and even a bit off breathing because these areas are seldom touched (This is true even for the men). For the ears, start off with the pinna (outermost part) give it a slow kiss and lick, then move to the back of the ear giving it a long lick going up and inside the ear, lick it slowly so the sensation is greatly felt by your partner. Its effective when you're partner gets some goose bumps, although this is not applicable for every lady so make sure to experiment on it first so as to not to ruin the mood. Next is we head south, the oral sex.
- Also known as cunnilingus for going down on a woman and fellatio for giving blow jobs. The important key here is to know the anatomy so you know which parts to stimulate more. Reaching this part of the foreplay, you should be able to build up some tension, pleasure and anticipation to a woman's body through all the kissing, licking, touching, moaning, and dirty talk, this greatly helps in the girls orgasm.Now giving cunnilingus can give a lady a mind blowing orgasms through clitoral stimulation. Orgasms through clitoral stimulation however is different from orgasms achieved through the vagina, orgasms through clitoral stimulation is a whole new level for them, some even say that they see a light when achieving orgasm through clitoral stimulation, is this true girls? Anyways, here are some tips you can do to make her cum during oral sex.
-Start of slow to build up more tension, pleasure and anticipation, concentrate more on the clit, which is an erectile tissue of a woman that is hard when horny. Its located where the labia comes together at the top which is covered by some skin, now appearances can be different for every woman, so explore first. Normally the skin can be retracted or pulled back when the clit is erect, this does not hurt as long as you do it gently, to expose the clit more. Lick it in different directions, up and down, side to side, circular, suck it gently, i don't recommend using ice as this constricts the blood vessels at that area so less sensation is felt (the same for giving blow jobs). I also don't recommend the drawing of alphabets with your tongue, its tiring and the focus goes to the drawing of the alphabets rather than giving pleasure. Be sure to experiment on where you're partner responds more, mix it all up to surprise her. Now aside from using you're lips and mouth, you can also use you're hands, but not in the vagina but also in clitoral stimulation. If you know the anatomy, the clitoris is an inverted "Y" shaped organ that goes deep inside and around the vagina, it has more than 8,000 nerve endings found at the tip (the part that can be felt or exposed) and more than 15,000 nerve endings all through out the body of the clitoris, this is the reason why orgasms can be achieved through this organ. Now, this is how i do it. I let my partner lay down with her right leg straight and left leg curled up, and i'm between the legs having a comfy position (because i do it for at least 15-30 mins or more, i love making her cum this way). I rest my left arm on her right leg and my right arm under her curled up left leg using my elbow as support. Now i use my left thumb and place it directly under the clit (or the area between the clit and viginal opening) this is where the rest of the body of the clit located, you can feel it with you're thumb when shes really horny, movements in this area (with you're thumb) will be up and down or circular, up and down motion of the thumb will push the clit more to the outside so you can lick more area, plus the stimulation with you're thumb adds a hell lot of pleasure to her. At this point, you should maintain the speed that she wants and a steady pace, you don't want to ruin the mood. This uses up alot of energy and stamina, so make sure to practice more. Next up is for you're right hand, this goes on top of the clit (mons pubis, where most of the pubic hair grows) place two fingers near to the base of the clit to retract the fore skin back and the clit will now be exposed, while holding this part you can also give it a little pressure and do some circular or up and down motions, this also gives great pleasure to her due to its close proximity to the clit. Now, be sure not to do it all at once so suddenly, make sure to do it slow, step by step so you'll have something new every time you'll have sex with you're partner. You can use the right or left hand technique first, and when she's used to it do all three together (2 hands and tongue) to give her a mind blowing cunnilingus! Now make sure to do it with style, not like a hungry dog licking a bone, and moan with her, this adds to her sense of hearing, and you can also stare at her eyes (nothing beats seeing her helpless face with all the pleasure you're giving her).
These are just some techniques you can use on you're partner to achieve clitoral orgasms, and its a fact that stimulating the clit more means that she'll be producing more fluids while having sex (more lubrication), and this increases you're chances of giving her multiple orgasms while having sex, not just more but stronger orgasms even to the point of squirting.
I could be wrong on some parts, so i'm open to suggestions and comments.
I hope you guys learned something,if you want to know more just let me know, thanks guys.