Author Topic: Do you have/had a Fubu / FB / Friends with benefits (whatever you call it?)  (Read 163081 times)

Offline D3ANXVI

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since i'm sleepy... here's a gist of my understanding why...

first of all... i don't think its stupid... men are really just built differently... and most follows the premise of less words less mistakes... and there is a difference between lying and not telling the everything...

because women in general... favors feelings over reason... higher level of insecurity... low tolerance with emotional topics... and so on... thus, most women wants the truth but cannot handle the truth... and i'm sure we're all familiar with the saying... " the truth hurts "...

therefore, men don't lie... we're just being considerate of your feelings...

just my 2 centavos...



curious lang ako pre, ano naman ang dinahilan mo at naintindihan ka ng dati mong GF?

I had one before, unfortunately natigil dahil sa friend nya na nagsumbong sa gf ko. lol! My balls were on my throat that time! I had no choice, inamin ko na din sa gf ko. lol! My friends said that it was the stupidest thing a man could ever do-to confess to his gf/wife. lol! Sabi ko naman, I Love my gf kaya yokong maging tanga sya kahit alam kong iiwanan nya ako. haha! Pero, luckily she understood my side. hahaha! Lucky me!

question lang , how come most guys think that its stupid for them to tell their girlfriends the truth??? Honestly, i would have preferred for my man to tell me the truth, understanding the situation is actually up to me ... I can act all childish and break it up or continue the relationship and try to forgive and forget ...
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curious lang ako pre, ano naman ang dinahilan mo at naintindihan ka ng dati mong GF?

I had one before, unfortunately natigil dahil sa friend nya na nagsumbong sa gf ko. lol! My balls were on my throat that time! I had no choice, inamin ko na din sa gf ko. lol! My friends said that it was the stupidest thing a man could ever do-to confess to his gf/wife. lol! Sabi ko naman, I Love my gf kaya yokong maging tanga sya kahit alam kong iiwanan nya ako. haha! Pero, luckily she understood my side. hahaha! Lucky me!

question lang , how come most guys think that its stupid for them to tell their girlfriends the truth??? Honestly, i would have preferred for my man to tell me the truth, understanding the situation is actually up to me ... I can act all childish and break it up or continue the relationship and try to forgive and forget ...   
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curious lang ako pre, ano naman ang dinahilan mo at naintindihan ka ng dati mong GF?

I had one before, unfortunately natigil dahil sa friend nya na nagsumbong sa gf ko. lol! My balls were on my throat that time! I had no choice, inamin ko na din sa gf ko. lol! My friends said that it was the stupidest thing a man could ever do-to confess to his gf/wife. lol! Sabi ko naman, I Love my gf kaya yokong maging tanga sya kahit alam kong iiwanan nya ako. haha! Pero, luckily she understood my side. hahaha! Lucky me!
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I had one before, unfortunately natigil dahil sa friend nya na nagsumbong sa gf ko. lol! My balls were on my throat that time! I had no choice, inamin ko na din sa gf ko. lol! My friends said that it was the stupidest thing a man could ever do-to confess to his gf/wife. lol! Sabi ko naman, I Love my gf kaya yokong maging tanga sya kahit alam kong iiwanan nya ako. haha! Pero, luckily she understood my side. hahaha! Lucky me!
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[kasi nakakatawa lang xa ... para kasi siyang bata na tinuturuan ... ang cuuuuuuuuutte
hahaha LOL
parang bata na tinuturuan na hindi matuto tuto. tama?! ahahaha

true true ... hahahaha

hahaha.. apir!! nice

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[kasi nakakatawa lang xa ... para kasi siyang bata na tinuturuan ... ang cuuuuuuuuutte
hahaha LOL
parang bata na tinuturuan na hindi matuto tuto. tama?! ahahaha

true true ... hahahaha
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[kasi nakakatawa lang xa ... para kasi siyang bata na tinuturuan ... ang cuuuuuuuuutte
hahaha LOL
parang bata na tinuturuan na hindi matuto tuto. tama?! ahahaha

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[kasi nakakatawa lang xa ... para kasi siyang bata na tinuturuan ... ang cuuuuuuuuutte
^ exactly

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wat abwt feling guilty? aren't u afraid of karma?

What is there to be guilty about when in the first place the two of you talk about it naman ... and correct me if I am wrong, she said "sana" meaning she would if she could, iba kasi pag sinabi niyang she went back with her ex FUBU na may asawa at anak na ... and D3ANXVI was write, tipid mo sa letters ... hirap intindihin post mo kung minsan  ;D ;D ;D

ibig ko sabihin what if it was just a one-time thing. yun nga kahit na your not stealing anybody's husband or wife and commited or not.kahit ba they just borrow for a while. siyempre parang may mga bagay na mali parin..hehe

 one time thing, so you mean ONS , wrong thread my dear ... were talking about FUBU here ... FUBU kasi is like having a boyfriend or girlfriend with out the hassle of commitment ... Personally, I don't do FUBU if I'm in a relationship, naninawala kasi ako na FUBU are for people who are single and wanting to remain single for the mean time and yet they need carnal pleasure ... plus your imagining things, she did not say she went on a one time thing with the guy ... what she was saying is she wanted to go back to the guy but he already have a girl and a baby ... as far as I can remember she did not say she was with him during the time that he already had the gurl with the baby

kilangan parin ba dito sa fb ung sex g@g@win ng paulit-ulit..?

dear kaya nga f*** BUDDY diba??? If both parties wanted anything more that sex than hindi na FUBU tawag dun, relationship ... It might sound cold pero it's a fact ... personally hindi ako maghahanap ng FUBU if I wanted someone na pwede kong makausap or pwede kong makadate and stuff, hahanap ako ng boyfriend ... FUBU is just purely sexual not unless the two of you take it up a notch and decide to have a relationship ... don't mistake it for a relationship dear, it's two different things ...  ;D ;D ;D

wag mo nalang pansinin siguro.. hindi naman kasi maintindihan eh.. kahit anong paliwanag mo hindi din nya maiintindihan..


 ;D ;D ;D

hahaha... sabay smiley lol...

kasi nakakatawa lang xa ... para kasi siyang bata na tinuturuan ... ang cuuuuuuuuutte
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wat abwt feling guilty? aren't u afraid of karma?

What is there to be guilty about when in the first place the two of you talk about it naman ... and correct me if I am wrong, she said "sana" meaning she would if she could, iba kasi pag sinabi niyang she went back with her ex FUBU na may asawa at anak na ... and D3ANXVI was write, tipid mo sa letters ... hirap intindihin post mo kung minsan  ;D ;D ;D

ibig ko sabihin what if it was just a one-time thing. yun nga kahit na your not stealing anybody's husband or wife and commited or not.kahit ba they just borrow for a while. siyempre parang may mga bagay na mali parin..hehe

 one time thing, so you mean ONS , wrong thread my dear ... were talking about FUBU here ... FUBU kasi is like having a boyfriend or girlfriend with out the hassle of commitment ... Personally, I don't do FUBU if I'm in a relationship, naninawala kasi ako na FUBU are for people who are single and wanting to remain single for the mean time and yet they need carnal pleasure ... plus your imagining things, she did not say she went on a one time thing with the guy ... what she was saying is she wanted to go back to the guy but he already have a girl and a baby ... as far as I can remember she did not say she was with him during the time that he already had the gurl with the baby

kilangan parin ba dito sa fb ung sex g@g@win ng paulit-ulit..?

dear kaya nga f*** BUDDY diba??? If both parties wanted anything more that sex than hindi na FUBU tawag dun, relationship ... It might sound cold pero it's a fact ... personally hindi ako maghahanap ng FUBU if I wanted someone na pwede kong makausap or pwede kong makadate and stuff, hahanap ako ng boyfriend ... FUBU is just purely sexual not unless the two of you take it up a notch and decide to have a relationship ... don't mistake it for a relationship dear, it's two different things ...  ;D ;D ;D

wag mo nalang pansinin siguro.. hindi naman kasi maintindihan eh.. kahit anong paliwanag mo hindi din nya maiintindihan..


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hahaha... sabay smiley lol...

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wat abwt feling guilty? aren't u afraid of karma?

What is there to be guilty about when in the first place the two of you talk about it naman ... and correct me if I am wrong, she said "sana" meaning she would if she could, iba kasi pag sinabi niyang she went back with her ex FUBU na may asawa at anak na ... and D3ANXVI was write, tipid mo sa letters ... hirap intindihin post mo kung minsan  ;D ;D ;D

ibig ko sabihin what if it was just a one-time thing. yun nga kahit na your not stealing anybody's husband or wife and commited or not.kahit ba they just borrow for a while. siyempre parang may mga bagay na mali parin..hehe

 one time thing, so you mean ONS , wrong thread my dear ... were talking about FUBU here ... FUBU kasi is like having a boyfriend or girlfriend with out the hassle of commitment ... Personally, I don't do FUBU if I'm in a relationship, naninawala kasi ako na FUBU are for people who are single and wanting to remain single for the mean time and yet they need carnal pleasure ... plus your imagining things, she did not say she went on a one time thing with the guy ... what she was saying is she wanted to go back to the guy but he already have a girl and a baby ... as far as I can remember she did not say she was with him during the time that he already had the gurl with the baby

kilangan parin ba dito sa fb ung sex g@g@win ng paulit-ulit..?

dear kaya nga f*** BUDDY diba??? If both parties wanted anything more that sex than hindi na FUBU tawag dun, relationship ... It might sound cold pero it's a fact ... personally hindi ako maghahanap ng FUBU if I wanted someone na pwede kong makausap or pwede kong makadate and stuff, hahanap ako ng boyfriend ... FUBU is just purely sexual not unless the two of you take it up a notch and decide to have a relationship ... don't mistake it for a relationship dear, it's two different things ...  ;D ;D ;D

wag mo nalang pansinin siguro.. hindi naman kasi maintindihan eh.. kahit anong paliwanag mo hindi din nya maiintindihan..


 ;D ;D ;D
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wat abwt feling guilty? aren't u afraid of karma?

What is there to be guilty about when in the first place the two of you talk about it naman ... and correct me if I am wrong, she said "sana" meaning she would if she could, iba kasi pag sinabi niyang she went back with her ex FUBU na may asawa at anak na ... and D3ANXVI was write, tipid mo sa letters ... hirap intindihin post mo kung minsan  ;D ;D ;D

ibig ko sabihin what if it was just a one-time thing. yun nga kahit na your not stealing anybody's husband or wife and commited or not.kahit ba they just borrow for a while. siyempre parang may mga bagay na mali parin..hehe

 one time thing, so you mean ONS , wrong thread my dear ... were talking about FUBU here ... FUBU kasi is like having a boyfriend or girlfriend with out the hassle of commitment ... Personally, I don't do FUBU if I'm in a relationship, naninawala kasi ako na FUBU are for people who are single and wanting to remain single for the mean time and yet they need carnal pleasure ... plus your imagining things, she did not say she went on a one time thing with the guy ... what she was saying is she wanted to go back to the guy but he already have a girl and a baby ... as far as I can remember she did not say she was with him during the time that he already had the gurl with the baby

kilangan parin ba dito sa fb ung sex g@g@win ng paulit-ulit..?

dear kaya nga f*** BUDDY diba??? If both parties wanted anything more that sex than hindi na FUBU tawag dun, relationship ... It might sound cold pero it's a fact ... personally hindi ako maghahanap ng FUBU if I wanted someone na pwede kong makausap or pwede kong makadate and stuff, hahanap ako ng boyfriend ... FUBU is just purely sexual not unless the two of you take it up a notch and decide to have a relationship ... don't mistake it for a relationship dear, it's two different things ...  ;D ;D ;D

wag mo nalang pansinin siguro.. hindi naman kasi maintindihan eh.. kahit anong paliwanag mo hindi din nya maiintindihan..

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wat abwt feling guilty? aren't u afraid of karma?

What is there to be guilty about when in the first place the two of you talk about it naman ... and correct me if I am wrong, she said "sana" meaning she would if she could, iba kasi pag sinabi niyang she went back with her ex FUBU na may asawa at anak na ... and D3ANXVI was write, tipid mo sa letters ... hirap intindihin post mo kung minsan  ;D ;D ;D

ibig ko sabihin what if it was just a one-time thing. yun nga kahit na your not stealing anybody's husband or wife and commited or not.kahit ba they just borrow for a while. siyempre parang may mga bagay na mali parin..hehe

 one time thing, so you mean ONS , wrong thread my dear ... were talking about FUBU here ... FUBU kasi is like having a boyfriend or girlfriend with out the hassle of commitment ... Personally, I don't do FUBU if I'm in a relationship, naninawala kasi ako na FUBU are for people who are single and wanting to remain single for the mean time and yet they need carnal pleasure ... plus your imagining things, she did not say she went on a one time thing with the guy ... what she was saying is she wanted to go back to the guy but he already have a girl and a baby ... as far as I can remember she did not say she was with him during the time that he already had the gurl with the baby

kilangan parin ba dito sa fb ung sex g@g@win ng paulit-ulit..?

dear kaya nga f*** BUDDY diba??? If both parties wanted anything more that sex than hindi na FUBU tawag dun, relationship ... It might sound cold pero it's a fact ... personally hindi ako maghahanap ng FUBU if I wanted someone na pwede kong makausap or pwede kong makadate and stuff, hahanap ako ng boyfriend ... FUBU is just purely sexual not unless the two of you take it up a notch and decide to have a relationship ... don't mistake it for a relationship dear, it's two different things ...  ;D ;D ;D
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wat abwt feling guilty? aren't u afraid of karma?

What is there to be guilty about when in the first place the two of you talk about it naman ... and correct me if I am wrong, she said "sana" meaning she would if she could, iba kasi pag sinabi niyang she went back with her ex FUBU na may asawa at anak na ... and D3ANXVI was write, tipid mo sa letters ... hirap intindihin post mo kung minsan  ;D ;D ;D

ibig ko sabihin what if it was just a one-time thing. yun nga kahit na your not stealing anybody's husband or wife and commited or not.kahit ba they just borrow for a while. siyempre parang may mga bagay na mali parin..hehe

 one time thing, so you mean ONS , wrong thread my dear ... were talking about FUBU here ... FUBU kasi is like having a boyfriend or girlfriend with out the hassle of commitment ... Personally, I don't do FUBU if I'm in a relationship, naninawala kasi ako na FUBU are for people who are single and wanting to remain single for the mean time and yet they need carnal pleasure ... plus your imagining things, she did not say she went on a one time thing with the guy ... what she was saying is she wanted to go back to the guy but he already have a girl and a baby ... as far as I can remember she did not say she was with him during the time that he already had the gurl with the baby

kilangan parin ba dito sa fb ung sex g@g@win ng paulit-ulit..?

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wat abwt feling guilty? aren't u afraid of karma?

What is there to be guilty about when in the first place the two of you talk about it naman ... and correct me if I am wrong, she said "sana" meaning she would if she could, iba kasi pag sinabi niyang she went back with her ex FUBU na may asawa at anak na ... and D3ANXVI was write, tipid mo sa letters ... hirap intindihin post mo kung minsan  ;D ;D ;D

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