Studies show that men are turned on with pornography more than women. The same goes with fantasies: Women might fantasize about doing it with a coworker under the office desk, but unlike you it does not necessarily mean they’ll walk the extra mile to make it happen.

But because I’m generous and I can’t just keep my fantasies to myself, I’ll give you a lead. Listed below are the top seven fantasies that women have in their heads, based on a little survey I did among girl friends. Happy reading!

1. Being watched
Women are affectionate by nature, and the thought of us being watched, desired, fantasized-about—or just being given special attention—is just as exciting to us as seeing others do it for you. CCTV, anyone?

2. Having multiple partners
Some women might deny it because they are too afraid to be judged or called names, but this fantasy enters our imagination more than you can, er, imagine. Even women in relationships tend to think about threesomes. Having another girl in the mix, however, is rarely part of it—and how you can pull it off, well, that’s a different story all together.