J-Pop: Temper Trap

Women—they may not know what they want but they always get it. You turn a deaf ear on her and she’ll chastise you for it. You do what she tells you to and she suddenly turns into a female version of the Hulk.

 What to do then? Let me set things straight. First, just listen very carefully and understand what the frack is going on. Women don’t always mean what they say, and they often say horrible things, but you got to deal with us. Here are some tips on dealing with our temper.

First, during a fight, she will most probably say the opposite of what she wants. This is known as reverse psychology. Women are the best known practitioners of this. Often she would most probably say: “ Leave me alone,” “Go away,” “Let’s break up,” “I hate you,” etc. Don’t fall for this trap. It will get you in deeper trouble. Instead, do the exact opposite of what she says. If she tells you to go away, leave her alone, then stay.  

This happened a lot between my ex-boyfriends and I. And that is why they are now my ex-boyfriends. For me, personally, that sort of stubbornness—choosing to stand by your woman when she pushes you away. It may differ from one girl to another, but make sure to do the opposite of what she says when in a fight.

Second, when you end up making other plans on your date night and ask her if it’s okay to go on with your other plan, and she says “its okay” or “have fun,” “I’ll see you next time,” prepare for the worst. If you really want to keep this girl, then here’s what you got to do: Stick to your original plan and go with her. She doesn’t really mean what she is saying, and if you end up ditching your date for that boys’ night out, then prepare to spend more night-outs with the boys instead.

Yes, by now you would probably be complaining about women and their weird brains and asking why can’t they just tell us men what they really want. That would be easier. Yes, EASIER. But we women want men to fight for us. We want to test your mettle. Once you come out as a winner from this “test,” we women put you into, we are yours.

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