PHOTOGRAPHY: JAY TABLANTE
STYLING: HANNAH KIM
MAKEUP:ARA FERNANDO BY GUERLAIN
Being called “sexy” has always been a big compliment. That is probably why most women want to be part of FHM’s 100 Sexiest list each year.
But really, what is “sexy”? Some would say having a voluptuous body. Others would say having a great personality. If you ask me, sexy is exuding the confidence. I believe even if a woman has an angelic face and ample curves and yet without the confidence to show what she’s got could not be considered sexy by most people.
Just like other women, I sometimes find it hard to feel sexy. Did you know one of the reasons we reject men is because of own insecurities? Jealousy is actually a desperate measure we undertake to feed our bruised egos. So how to keep your woman feeling secure and your relationship healthy? Make her feel sexy.
1 When out at a mall, bar, or even in the streets, if a gorgeous female passes by…never look at her. I know it’s hard, but it just takes a little practice. Simply follow this exercise:
Step 1: Stand straight, put your hands together, and assume you’re holding your woman’s hand.
Step 2: Feel the muscle on your neck and try to keep your neck stiff and your head straight.
Step 3: Turn on the TV in your room and switch to a program with a lot of sexy girls on it—say Fashion TV or Bubble Gang.
Step 4: Walk across the room with the TV on your side. Even with the distractions, you should be able to keep your head straight.
- With this, it will be instinctive for you to keep your focus on your girl whenever you’re HHWHWW (holding hands with her while walking). Once you master this trick, she’ll be more trusting. From there you can cheat on her all you want—kidding!
2 To get that sexy swagger, every woman needs constant affirmation. So don’t skimp on the compliments. For example, when she buys a new dress and asks you how she looks, don’t just say, “Okay naman, hon.” Tell her she looks gorgeous in it, and the dress is perfect for her. Even the most blatant of lies can go a long way if told with conviction. Most of the time, you need not even lie about the way your woman looks—you just have to sound more credible. Don’t forget to look her in the eyes as you say this.
3 As is always the case, girls are at their most insecure in the bedroom, when they’re going au naturel. What you can do is focus on the body parts she feels most insecure about—i.e., her tummy, or legs, or hips. Of course, breasts are a given—you’re expected to fondle them gently whether she’s proud of them or not!
4 Last but not the least, show her that you love her, and care for her. This is actually the most important tip of all. Its times that she feels loved that she becomes more confident and shows the sexy side of her. How do you show her you love her? One thing I loved about a man I used to go out with was when he’d just kiss me out of the blue and say, “You look so pretty so I just had to kiss you.” Sweet, isn’t it?
Those were pretty easy tips and I sincerely hope each of you will use them because every woman deserves to feel sexy and confident about herself. Remember: it’s the little things that matter, so be big on them. See you at the 100 Sexiest Women in the World party!