PHOTOGRAPHY: JAY TABLANTE
STYLING: HANNAH KIM
MAKEUP:ARA FERNANDO BY GUERLAIN
I’ve seen a lot of hot Korean girls like you around, but they seem to shy away from Filipinos like me. Also, I’ve noticed how rare it is to see a Pinoy and Korean couple. Why is this so?
Are they totally scared of hooking up with Pinoys? What’s the best way to approach them?
SuperSenior, by email
I’ve been getting a lot of questions regarding this. First of all, as a Korean woman, I myself prefer Filipino men. But I think Korean women in general are just intimidated by the fact that they have to speak fl uent English. And since English is a second language to most Koreans, they are scared to talk to Filipinos if they haven’t mastered the language yet. Well, that’s just my opinion—I can’t speak for all Korean women out there. As for the best way to approach Korean girls, I think the key is to make them feel more comfortable. Make the language barrier seem less of an issue. Make her laugh, joke around. Being funny is, I think, the best way to get close to Korean girls.
I want to buy lingerie and underwear for my woman. What are the things I need to consider when doing so?
Pitoym, by email
That’s so sweet of you. Your woman is so blessed! Lingerie and underwear depend on a woman’s body type. I myself think lacey underwear is sexy. Not too much, though, because it can be distracting. Lingerie should compliment the body, not to take attention away from a woman’s beautiful figure. As for the texture, silk is probably the sexiest choice. It’s because it feels soft and this can help you get in the mood, if you know what I mean. You can never go wrong with black or white, but red, purple, and even pink are also great lingerie colors. Of course, this also depends on the skin tone of the person. Because my skin is fair, I think dark lingerie looks sexy too but if your woman has a darker skin tone, lighter shades would look best. For me, however, the real slutty ones, like the ones with holes and stuff, aren’t as sexy because it takes attention away from the girl’s body and focuses it on the lingerie itself. So buy something not too distracting. Sometimes simple underwear is sexy too, like plain gray bra and panties.
What are signs that a woman is turned on? When is the right time to initiate the act?
Pe-Thor, by email
I don’t know about other girls but when I’m turned on, I usually make the first move or give hints to show him that I am. I start by kissing him on the neck or ears. Guys often get the hint by then. Or I look at him in the eyes and touch his thighs, back, and stroke his hair slowly, ha ha! I think by then you should act upon it because it’s pretty obvious she is turned on! Otherwise, you can try kissing her lips and if she doesn’t object, then slowly move on to kissing her neck. If also by then, she is okay, then you can slowly—but not too aggressively—make the move. This means touching and stroking her gently