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I hope all of you are doing okay now after Ondoy. Me? Let’s just say I got flooded and wet and muddy…and I liked it!
So as we begin anew, I’d like to introduce you to another hot topic: Sexual Healing. (I’m actually listening to Marvin Gaye right now…and yes, the idea came from him!) I’ve been reading a lot about Taoists’ point of view on this. I’ve been experimenting here and there, too. For this month, let’s take some more of Mantak Chia’s advice…
Episode 1: The Art of Taoist Vaginal Massage
1 GET WET: “Even more than fingering, genital massage requires lots of lubrication,” reveals Chia. “A woman’s own natural lubricant is best, but it is better to err in the direction of too much rather than too little of lubrication.” I say: If the pussy ain’t wet, spit’s what you beget.
2 ENGORGED: “The more engorged a woman is, the more sensitive her vagina will be. For this reason her partner may wish to wait until later in lovemaking before giving her a genital rub,” Chia says. Very much like what happened to me the last time: My partner and I had this amazing lovemaking. A few hours after we busted, he became horny again. The sex was so indescribably mind-blowing I felt I gave him all my energy! It’s like my pussy needed to rest a little bit before we hit it again. But knowing me, yes, of course, I gave in to his request even if my pussy wasn’t engorged. But it just wouldn’t let his dick in even if I was horny! This time, we knew: Patience is a virtue.