Happy New Year everyone! I haven't answered your letters in a while so I thought we should start the year right with big-bang answers to your burning questions!
My girlfriend likes "talking dirty." The problem is I don't know how. So I want to know what kind of dirty things you like to hear or have said. I want to let her know I'm thinking of her in that way, too. I'm really bad at expressing myself and I would like some advice on this. - Rommel, by email
Rommel, it's very easy. Just tell her what you feel like saying, really. If you are not sure of what to say, say it first in front of her face and get a reaction so when you text her when you feel like it she will remember it. "Dirty talk" is talking in "rough" context. For example, she might get excited with you telling or texting her, "Oh baby, I wanna fuck you real hard and come all over your face!" or "I wanna slide my big hard cock inside your wet and sweet pussy!" Don't try hard, though. Let it come naturally!
How risky is it to slide ice cubes into a woman's vagina? I'm talking about risk of infection, of course. - Tony, Mandaluyong
I've never heard of ice cubes infecting the woman's vagina. However, there might have been a case of contamination or something. I'd say it is safe to put ice cubes if it's only ice cubes, not flavored popsicles. Make sure you wet the ice first and don't let it stay inside her for too long.
I've been married for seven years now and my wife's sexual appetite has gone downhill. I would like to bring the way things used to be. I don't want her to get bored with me. Please give me advice on how to please her. - Mr. Married Guy
You can try so many things to spice up your marriage life. You can try different positions, different places, different holes, role-playing, toys, swinging even. It depends on your choices and mutual understanding of your partnership. Now, let me just tell you the "safest" and "easiest" answer: Surprise your wife! Try this! Apart from making the setting and ambience, and adding the "works," sex-wise, be more adventurous and give her the One-Man-Gang-Bang! It's the same principle as the one-man-band. Try and practice multitasking and give her intensifying pleasure! Put her in a position where you can lick her nipples and will be able to penetrate her deeply. Make sure your two hands are getting busy, one hand will be playing with her clitoris (while you're humping her) and the other hand probably pinching her nipple. When you pinch her nipple make sure it's not too hard, or if you pinch it hard make sure it's in the same rhythm as you penetrate. At some point play with her butt as well. If this is done properly, you're aiming for her having a clitoral, vaginal, anal, or even orgasm from her breasts! Trust me, it will be phenomenal. Good luck!
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