Admit it guys: One of your ultimate sexual fantasies is to experience a threesome. But don't worry, some girls have this type of fantasy, too, though we are more shy to admit it.
Just to be safe, I'd like to say that threesomes are not for everyone. A lot of us want to stick to one partner when having sex and I commend such faithful partnership—after all you only have two hands to cup two ample breasts. And it is a wonderful thought for both sexes knowing you are making love to someone who's connecting to you not only physically but emotionally.
Having said that, if you are in a serious relationship I warn you not to get the woman you are involved with in a threesome unless you are really swingers. Some women say they're into it—but only to see how you'd react, so be very careful! It's really safe to do it with a fuck buddy, FUBU for short.
So how do you start? It's always good to ask questions, honey. Ask the girl you're interested in having a threesome with if she has ever fooled around or had sex with a woman. If no, well automatically you ask the follow-up question, which is: “Do you want to?” If she says yes, then ask her about the experience, then ask her if she's ever had a threesome. It's always good to be direct and honest. Tell her in your most tactful manner that you'd be very happy and ecstatic to see her make out with a chick. Mind you, you would like to dive in the holes of pleasure, not dig your own hole, so be careful with your words and discuss it like it's a casual mature topic. It is really a mature topic, anyway. Also, by boosting her ego, you might get what you're encouraging to happen.
Now, assuming you've convinced your FUBU to have a threesome, let her look for a partner, this way you don't really have to do anything. Plus, when you choose the partner, she'll be asking too much questions or might think it's some kind of a competition. Tell her to disclose to the other girl the situation. Give her the task while you watch and see!
Assuming your partner has found one, the girl might feel a bit odd at first, so make sure she feels comfortable and tell them things like, “Hey you girls look so hot together.”
May I just squeeze in that alcohol is actually a good idea in this type of situation? Most especially if it is your first time. After a few boozes, you might find yourself staring at hotter girls getting into a much hotter situation—this is your cue to go and get involved. If they're kissing, don't be afraid to jump in and kiss them both. No need to ask permission—just feel the situation, and if one reacts differently then you might have to back off. If the girls like what you're doing, invite them to a private place like, say, your pad. Make sure on the way to your pad you make some room for them to fool around at the backseat of your car and make sure you've got ready booze there.
Another important reminder is that in threesomes there is a tendency that one will be left out, so make sure this doesn't happen. Allot time for each of the girls so the other wouldn't feel insecure. It is supposed to be a fun activity, not a task. Don't push it and don't be insistent if it is not possible. What happens next is totally up to you, baby! Good luck and make sure you are protected.
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