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Give Me Pleasure/Pain: FHM's Guide to S&M

In the age of Fifty Shades, apparently the girls wouldn’t mind giving and taking both pleasure and pain. Hence, we break down the S&M kinks and fetishes in digestible everyman pieces. This is where you tell her, gusto mo ng nipple clamps, dear?

Jul 15, 2013
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In the age of Fifty Shades, it shouldn't surprised you that girls now don't mind doing a little S&M. Clamps, cuffs, whips, the works. Heck, she might even ask you for it. 

Herein lies the problem: What if you're no Christian Grey? What if you have no idea how to tie her up and bondage her into pleasure? What if you don't even know what toys to bring to your scheduled S&M-themed romp?

As always, we 've got you're back: Below we break down the S&M kinks and fetishes in digestible everyman pieces. We guarantee you that after reading this you can now confidently and (kinky sex) knowledgiably ask her: "Gusto mo ng nipple clamps, dear?


LESSON I: S&M Stuff and How/Why It's Used


NIPPLE CLAMPS
Attached to flaccid nipples to stimulate arousal, or to erect ones to rein and tug in pleasure. The two clamps are essentially metal clothespins, your nipples the sampayan, and a metal chain that links the two clamps together (sometimes with a ball weighing it down) its sampay.




BALL GAG
Keeps mouths open but unspeaking. Unlike over-the-mouth cloth and duct tape gags, inside-the-mouth silicone ball gags are less dangerous than they appear, and leave spaces on the sides of mouth to avoid suffocation.

BULLWHIP
In “normal sex,” equivalent to your hands. Primarily for flogging ass cheeks with, but is also no stranger to sore backs. Unlike in penitensya though,bullwhips used in S&M are lighter-weighted criss-crossing strips of pleather whose amount of damage relies on the weight you put on it, and not on every hagod return. You also can’t bleed from a kinky bullwhip, unless you decide on making creative adjustments.




LEASH CUFFLINK
Wraps around necks, wrists and ankles, with the occasional lock and key to highlight that you’re a dog, or a really submissive sexual pet. Chains link cuff to another, not much foR one movement but more for visual arousal.

HANDCUFFS
More utilitarian than leashes, though not exempt from taking  furrier bedroom forms like the pair pictured here, to cushion wrists from pinching sensations and chafing while thrashing on headboards, chair legs, or against the other wrist.


HOLE-LESS MASKS
Heightens flogging, clamping, and nibbling sensations by hampering sight.

 

NEXT: Make every part of your body S&M ready


Photography Heidi Aquende Ropework and Styling Genie Ranada-Babista
From FHM's June 2013 issue
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