Let's keep it real, here: You're never gonna get a girlfriend if you look like you can't take care of yourself, which is to say, if you look like you need some good grooming. Good grooming doesn't just make you look pleasing to her eyes, it is also demonstrates your caring capacity. If you can take care of yourself, surely, you can take care of her.
Of course the world is a different place now from how it was ten years ago. It's moving faster now, you're also busier now, and hey, global warming is concern. And so, here, we present the new basics of men's grooming.
Once you start looking presentable, your confidence will shoot up and soon, girls will be shooting you those sideway glances of interest. But that's getting ahead of yourself. Right now, good grooming is what you need to put focus on.