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7 Secret Fears Of Girls During Your First Week As A Couple

#1: You might just be like her douchey ex.
by Mary Rose A. Hogaza | Sep 10, 2015
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At last, you've finally passed her tests, and you're now officially a couple. Feels like you've unlocked a level in COC, right? But do you know how your new girl feels after she gave her matamis na oo? She might have said yes but that doesn't mean that all her fears are gone. Every girl still has a few things on her mind at the beginning of every "official" relationship.

As she tries to get to know you more, and tries to figure out if she's done the right thing, some fears or insecurities are going to make their way to the surface. It might be helpful to know them.


1)   YOU MIGHT JUST BE LIKE HER DOUCHEY EX

Women worry that history might just repeat itself. Different man, same results. The best way to avoid this is to openly talk about the things she didn't like about her ex-boyfriend. Also, instead of telling her you're different from all the other guys out there, show her you are. Remember what your mama told you: "Action speaks louder than words."

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2)   SHE'S SCARED THAT YOUR EX IS BETTER

She's scared that she might not be as loving, caring, and sweet as your ex-girlfriend. She's scared that your family and friends might still haven't gotten over your ex. She can't help but imagine that people around you are staring because they feel sorry for you.


3)   SHE'S AFRAID THAT YOU AREN'T SATISFIED WITH HER LOOKS

She's scared that one day you'll wake up and leave her for someone more eye-catching. "Where the heck did she get this idea?" you ask. It's just merely the pressure of seeing so many beautiful images of models, celebrities, and other women on billboards or on social media. Reassure her and tell her to stop comparing herself so much.

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4)   SHE'S AFRAID YOU HAVE OTHER PRIORITIES

Insert: work and friends. These two are usually the things in your life that might demand more attention and time than her. To help her get over this fear, set dates when you can see her so there's something she can always look forward to. Don't be too spontaneous. Put your foot down, and tell her that on this specific day and date, you'll be having yourselves a nice date.


5)   SHE FEARS THAT YOU MIGHT NOT APPROVE OF HER PERSONAL CHOICES IN LIFE

We're talking about her clothes, career, and everything in between. The solution is simple: Don't be a control freak.

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6)   YOU JUST WANT HER FOR SEX

Sadly, some guys are good in deceiving women. They make girls believe they're "Mr. Right" but once they get what they want, they disappear like a bubble.


7)   YOU AREN'T MR. RIGHT

There's no doubt she loves you but you might not be The One. Many women are still obsessed with the notion that Mr. Right is still afloat somewhere waiting to be snatched up like a fruit. Be that fruit. And if she doesn't like the taste, let her be.

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