Ah, the female orgasm. It's such a beautiful thing. It's so elusive and mysterious like a mythological creature lurking in the deepest recesses of our imagination.
Okay, stop. It doesn't have to be an imaginary thing. All women can reach climax; maybe you just aren't doing it right.
"You don't listen to your partner when she tries to communicate her desire," reveals gynecologist Dr. Pari in an article published on Elite Daily. "Mature sex includes two people with different wants and different needs," Dr. Pari noted.
Translation: While it's nice to take control in the bedroom, you need to pay attention when she asks you to do something. If, say, she wants you to go slow, go slow, bro. But if she wishes you to go full beast mode, go on. Your takeaway: Always consider your other half and don't just do things to satisfy yourself.
Dr. Pari also recommends unleashing your creativity so you two can experience maximum arousal.
"Whether it comes from oral or manual stimulation from a partner, masturbation or the use of sex toys, find a way," she said. "If you want to explore together, even better," she added.