Men only have one job in the bedroom: to make sure your woman is satisfied.
However, a study conducted by the psychologists at Oakland University found out that over 80 percent of women fake orgasm. The reasons vary—from not feeling a strong connection with their partner to ambiance.
Sexpert Trilce Ortiz says: "The large majority of women need to feel a real connection with their partner to fully explore her sexuality. There has to be a certain level of trust established for most women to feel relaxed and let herself enjoy sex more."
But how can you build this level of connection and trust? Or just how can you make sure she's happy with your performance? We asked 10 women for the best sex advice they could give to men. Here are their answers:
"Focus on intimacy rather than your performance. Nothing could be more satisfying than knowing that my boyfriend is sexually connected with me." —Monica, 23
"Don't insert your penis right away. We love to be teased and caressed all over before getting into the main course. Our knees get weak when you blow on our ears, kiss our neck from behind, and play with our nipples or clitoris." —Sidney, 26
"My friends and I recently talked about this. We've all agreed that dog style, spoon, and other rear entry sex position are more satisfying than front entry. I think it's because mas nararamdam kasi na baon yung penis and mas may thrill. It doesn't matter if you want to go slowly or quickly. I can guarantee that both can lead to orgasm." —Vina, 21
"A good sex face helps me orgasm faster. For sure, lalo na pag ako yung nasa top, mas gaganahan ako. —Princess, 25
"Make eye contact when she goes down on you or when you give her cunnilingus. This helps us to stay emotionally and sexually connected." —Carla, 27
"Masturbate in front us. My boyfriend teased me by doing this before and I can't help but feel wet. After siyang labasan, he went down on me for a bit and we proceeded to have the best sex I've ever had."—Mari, 19
"Don't be scared to tell us the kinky stuff you want to do. Most of the time, nahihiya kaming mga babae magsabi kaya inaantay namin partner namin to open up first." —Rica, 20
"Surprise us with new sex positions. We also get bored with missionary. Google is just a click away." —Kristine, 22
"It drives me wild when my partner takes time to play with my boobs. I don't just mean grabbing. I mean licking the nipples and giving them little bites until my nipples get hard. With the help of a little fingering, I will surely cum in no time." —Sheila, 19
"Let your girl take control. Let her decide how things are going to go. Be like Anastasia in 50 Shades." —Pat, 20
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