Women don’t need candles or scattered rose petals, and if cuddling is the best part, you’re doing it wrong. The female orgasm is not a myth. It is alive and well and living inside your girlfriend’s vagina, and lucky for you, there is no secret password, just 40 hard truths every man should know.
2. On spontaneity. Waiting until the weekend to get your freak on is about as exciting as getting your teeth cleaned. There are few things better than a spontaneous romp in the sheets. Ditch the candlelight dinner and get frisky with her in the laundry room.
3. Masturbation. Girls flick the bean more often than you think. If a girl knows how to pleasure herself, chances are she’ll have—and will be—more fun in the sack.
4. Music. If there is a singular, undeniable truth on Earth it’s that no one makes baby-making music like Prince.
5. Want something a little more contemporary? Thunderheist’s “Jerk It,” Cat Power’s “I’ve Been Thinking,” or D’Angelo’s “Brown Sugar” does the trick, too.
6. One-night stands are fun but…
7. Nothing’s better than sex with someone who knows your body.
8. Every once in a while, everyone needs a little jumpstart. A little lube will go a long way. It’ll take some of the pressure off of both of you. Don’t let your ego get in the way of your lady having fun.