You've hearing about that "messy hair" thing from your woman for some time now. Well, she's saying it to your face for a reason.
The seemingly untamed hairstyle comes off as sexy in the eyes of your lady love—as in morning-after, just-got-out-of-bed desirable. They may even be picturing themselves smelling your mane, running their fingers through it, and pulling your hair.
In most situations, "messy" is not a state worth striving for. But when it comes to hair, "messy" is okay—as long as it's in style. Too much and you'll look like a straight-up mess.
Better yet, check out this easy-breezy tutorial from world-renowned hair guru YouTuber Joe of BluMaan to nail that much sought-after disheveled look:
You may use hair styling wax you prefer or get the actual product used here.